*thumpers rule*
now as a child i would watch Bambi as im sure most children have seen the movie or maybe had the book read to him. one important rule in there was when thumpers mama told him *if you dont have nothing nice to say dont say anything at all*
why is this one important? simple because everyone has times when they run into someone they dont care for, and when you do its best to simply *walk away* or ignore that person vs saying something hurtful to them.
*dont pour salt into someones wounds* i think this one goes well with *put yourself into someone elses shoes*
again we all have people we dont like, and yes sometimes they come on hard times and things happen in their personal lives that are uncontrollable to them or anyone for that matter.. but until you are walking in their shoes and know their pains how do you fully know their pain?
quite simply you dont.. you dont know what other people feel.. and what right does anyone have to add to someone elses pain? is it really making the person who causes the extra pain feel that much better that they poured the salt into the wound?
*when life gives you lemons...*
yeah you can fill in the blank on this one what you want to consider the rest of it. truth be told life sucks sometimes and we are faced with tough or hard times.. so make the best of it, embrace loved ones and try to find the happiness that is there..
im sure i could go on and on.. but i think most understand what im saying..
its stupid to get worked up when you see someone you dont like.. its dumb to try to hurt someone for your own personal gain..
be thankful that your not in the situations that others face.. i dont care what the situations are.. we ALL have hurdles we must over come and we all have hurt in our lives.. we hurt that we are ttc and cant get the bfp we long for.. we hurt when someone we love betrays our love and trust.. we hurt when we see our children hurting or a friend hurting or a loved one hurting.. we hurt when tough times are upon us..
so who is to decide when its their right to make someone elses hurt that much worse? does pouring the salt make things better for you when you do?
