a husband lays on life support leaving a family wondering if he will pull through or will they be saying their good byes any second..
a pregnant woman gives birth without her husband there because he has tossed them out for another woman.. leaving thoughts of what should have been running through her head vs the reality she faces as she gives birth..
a woman stares at bfn after bfn suffering with infertility and wondering if that baby she dreams of will ever be born..
some people have real life problems.. serious things going on in their lives..
yet some tend to stick to the small things.. the matter less things.. the things they instead choose to dwell on and cause hate and discontent..
next time you find yourself being in this position.. remember.. real life is happening every day..
hope to god you never walk in the shoes of the one that you are hurting.. hope to god that your never faced with real life serious issues..
hope to god that you will someday find compassion in your heart and let the small stuff go..
try to be understanding.. show compassion and understanding in your life.. be the one lending the ear when its needed.. be the one offering the hug.. be the one standing up for right instead of wrong..
real life happens every day.. real issues come up all the time.. nothing is guaranteed in life.. be your BEST not your worst ..
have a heart.. be understanding.. dont follow the flock and stand out alone if you must.. dance to your own drum beat if you have to.. but be the best you that you can be.
maybe if you decided to be this person.. friends wouldnt disappear just food for thought ~
