so far little ron has told me that according to mother he isnt allowed to have friends in the pool.. when i asked what he meant he said *well she said that kirk cant come in, hayden cant and neither can tyler* okay why not? these arent bad kids after all.. grant it i dont like tylers mother at all but hes not a bad kid and him and little ron seem to get along really well when he is here for the summer (he lives with his dad out of state).
according to him the reason why kirk cant come in is because *he might drown* okay thats just a tease because kirk is really really tiny.. he never got a reason for hayden and as for tyler mothers reasoning to him was *because he said something mean about her last year* omg are you serious? first of all i hardly doubt that when my son and tyler are together their main topic of discussion is my mother and secondly stop acting like a danged 2 year old? am i the only one this sounds grade school to?
i told him not to worry about it because it was *their* pool (as in the boys pool) and not hers.. and thats when he told me that she says its her pool.. my gawd do we have to go through this already?
lets not forget that wyatt used her bathroom (just pee'd) and her toilet wouldnt flush. i went to look into it and told her about it because i still couldnt get it to flush and she started ranting about how it was all rickys fault for digging up her septic.. my god woman its nothing RICKY did.. he did not open the tank but had to look to see if the old trailer was still connected so that he could take it out with no issues at all.. i dont even think he dug it up (ron would know for sure) but she swears he did this and that to it and broke the seal on the tank lid..
when i said i knew for a fact that he never opened the lid (because i do know that much) i got told that *well he did something to it* i suggested she call back the guy who cleaned it and tell him the lid must not be sealed right or something (it happens) and was told *i dont have money for that* real snotty like. argh!! than when i told her that ricky hadnt opened it at all she said *well he did something* and little ron suggested that maybe he dug around it like he did the other tank and she said well than he broke the seal.. i said *well mother you cant seal it around it, there are holes for draining on the sides of a septic towards the top* and she said *well the guy who opened it put tar paper all around it.. argh LIAR!!
first of all, all the guy does is open the lid, he doesnt dig up the whole tank therefore your *he put tar paper all around it* is a lie because he never dug up the whole thing. secondly ricky didnt break the seal that was supposedly put on it because he never opened the lid, nice try mother.. i say call the guy that pumped it and see if the seal just didnt take, its not unknown to happen and ive told you this from day one to keep and eye on it because if it was having any issues around the lid, chances are it didnt seal right *duh*.
next on my list of *annoying* was her whole *oh my angel* crap with owen.. *he can have whatever he wants because hes my little angel* .. *he can do whatever he wants because hes my little angel* but yet if the other boys did anything it was attitude from the get go.. little ron said *will you please hand me...* and she said to him *stop being rude ron* rude? please is not rude.. i told her that saying please is not rude and that i have raised my boys to say please.. than instructed them that since she finds the word *please* to be rude, to no longer say please to her *hahaha* yeah she didnt like that much ..
than on top of that, we were talking about when they went and spread the ashes of my grandparents.. this is a hard subject for me (kinda) i mean im over it but im not.. because when the time came to spread them.. myself and my family were left out of being apart of it, partly because my sister was going to be there and partly because i worked and they planned it when i was working, when my husband was working etc.. i was not notified or asked what days would have worked best for us because they decided they were doing it on such and such day.. and that was it. i couldnt get off work at last minute and my husbands line of work at the time was a deff no of him just *taking off* like that last minute.. but he worked a revolving schedule of 2 days on 3 days off.. 3 days on .. 2 days off .. as for me, with advance notice i could have said *hey i need day XXX off because we are doing XYZ* and gotten it because my boss was awesome about that kind of stuff. not to mention everyone knew my days off each week were always the same *tuse, and wed* but yet they did this and made plans to do this on a thurs? i was in the mind set of they did it on a weekend but was rudely corrected last night on what day it was.. you know it dont matter, you couldnt have done it the day before so i could have been there? i didnt even know when they were doing it.. they just came into my place of employment and said *hey to bad you had to work we did XYZ today and now were going to have a get together at mothers house, sorry our missing out but you have to work* almost like it was being rubbed in my face..
same thing with aunt B so many times i have heard when she was in town how *to bad your married* because we were gonna do this and that but your married and cant be here.. but yet my sister who is married with kids was there because she was living with mother at the time.. i only live down the road people .. geesh!! or is it the fact that im a real mom and take care of my kids thats the issue? so if i came down to sit around and visit or whatever my kids would be with me where as my sister would leave hers in the trailer? i dunno.. just kinda sucks sometimes, specially when im the one they call when they want something done.. or im the one always doing stuff to help out. i mean i know that in the next few weeks im going to be the one out there raking all the danged pine straw from both lots into a burn pile to get ready to burn and yet for some reason over the summer and probably more than once, i will be the one shit on.
